Tuesday, October 18, 2011

5 Parenting Rules Moms Should Break - Circle of Moms

"One day when you're a mother, you'll get to make the rules."  Oh how I longed for that day! 

I was not a rule breaker growing up.  In my Chinese American family, rules were very important. Without being the best rule follower, how else could you become the teacher's pet? 

Now that I'm a mother, I am the greatest rule inventor in the world.  "You can have 2 juices diluted with water a day."  "Gummy vitamins come AFTER pjs and medicine, no more discussion!"  And recently, "If you break this rule you will have NOTHING YOU WANT FOR THE REST OF THE DAY."  I hope that doesn't sound as desperate as I was in actuality.

So, when Circle of Moms asked me for a parenting rule that moms should break, I had to think for a moment.  What territory could I cede, without the lunatics taking over the asylum?  And then I remembered, that when my children ask for something spontaneous, and I let go of my plans for an evening, unexpected joy can result. 

Check out my contribution, and the wisdom of four other Top 25 Funny Moms, here.

6 comments:

  1. Great piece on Circle of Moms, Patty! I so agree that sometimes saying yes when you would least expect to say yes is a magical thing. There's nothing better than seeing the giddy surprise in your children's eyes when their mom does something completely unexpected. Here's to keeping them guessing.

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  2. Specifics are needed. I want to hear what fun was had. And I laughed when I read about the diluted juice; I finally let go of that one, but it still bugs me. My daughter was served a 24 oz mug of apple juice today & I counted sugar and calories in head.

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  3. I loved this piece! Sometimes when I let go a bit that is when the magic really happens! What a fun site Patty. I'm so glad I got to meet you yesterday at BlogHer, I am now following you and I look forward to reading more from you!!

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  4. Thank you ladies, I am thrilled to have so many fabulous bloggers chiming in! I hope you all check out each other's work, I love you all. @Britta, love how you put it "giddy surprise" - think of how that might help in the romance dept as well :). @Kablooey, yes, the dinner picnic at the beach was dreamy, the girls collected twigs and shells peacefully FOR AN HOUR during sunset, never would have happened at home. @Kathy, the feeling is totally mutual - can't wait to dive into your life too!

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